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Jde-PJ
05-16-2003, 02:54 AM
Someone made a post at synergy, and I guess someone took your pics and gave it to that Italian web site The Long Road.

Here is the post from Synergy.

http://forums.sonymusic.com/thread.jsp?forum=489&thread=1548579&tstart=0&trange=50


Sorry about this, I hope you guys can get that site to take it down, if you want to I mean.


If you do mind, I am sure whoever the guy is who runs the site, he did not know these were private, although he should have asked, but just email him and let him know, and I would hope he takes them down.


Anyway I thought you two should know about this, not cool at all for someone to do this, without getting your permission. :(

low_light
05-16-2003, 03:03 AM
that really sucks

Highway23
05-16-2003, 07:56 AM
Actually, I'm pretty pissed about this.

The girl who runs the site is a member here on the board, but never posts. Which means that most likely she saw the pictures.

She also says Thanx to Jake highway. I assure you that I DID NOT give her permission to take them. Jami and Chris, I am sorry. I'm writing her an email right now.

I also took them off my folder.

I just sent her an email and they better go off


I'm really sorry that this has happened you 2, please believe me that I did not in anyway have anythign to do with this

Highway23
05-16-2003, 09:19 AM
She's taking them down

I guess she saw them at other forums, but I have yet to see where. Someone over at the Haven posted a link to the picture post, and said that we didn't want them anywhere.

I'm still checking what other forums have them...

panthergirl
05-16-2003, 09:25 AM
one of the posts over at synergy asks...
'who's the hottie' (referring to our jami)

anyway...I hope they remove the posts too..
I'm sure most of them will respect your request.

that's the scary thing...once it's out there-
(the information super-duper highway)
-you never know where your posts/comments/thoughts/stories/pictures/etc can end up....

Highway23
05-16-2003, 09:29 AM
I pm'd Kat, hopefully she takes the post down.


:(

GreenDisease
05-16-2003, 10:11 AM
eek! :(

Some people have no respect.

I hope you hear something from Kat soon Jake. Raise some hell! ;)

yer ardy
05-16-2003, 10:20 AM
this is not surprising - seems like it's open season
once something's posted on the internet regardless
of your wishes.....

the post is still there and
the pics are still on the site...

:(

Smirks
05-16-2003, 10:27 AM
I've also emailed vale of longroad.it and another site owner (www.pearljamonline.it) and asked them to take the pictures down.

I've been told by vale the pictures will be removed at some point today. I haven't heard back from the other person as of yet.

Highway23
05-16-2003, 10:31 AM
I noticed that the guy over at fucking Pearljamonline.it put a link up to my whole folder...

:mad:

reallygroovN
05-16-2003, 10:34 AM
ohmygosh

serenitynow, serenitynow

Smirks
05-16-2003, 10:52 AM
Jake,

Here's how to block people coming from pearljamonline.it from viewing your stuff:

Create a filed called .htaccess (notice the . dot in the front). In that file put:

SetEnvIfNoCase Referer "^http://www.pearljamonline.it/" BadReferrer
SetEnvIfNoCase Referer "^http://pearljamonline.it/" BadReferrer
order deny,allow
deny from env=BadReferrer

Save that and upload it to your website directory. If your server admins allow .htaccess files this should block anyone coming from the link on that site.

Highway23
05-16-2003, 10:54 AM
sweet man, thanks

yer ardy
05-16-2003, 10:54 AM
his name is Bond... Smirks Bond.



;)

Smirks
05-16-2003, 10:57 AM
I kinda like that name... I have the shades to be Smirks Bond too!

http://bbs.pearl-jam.net/attachment.php?postid=83345

reallygroovN
05-16-2003, 11:06 AM
dah nah nah naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

that guy in the middle...is he Q?

Smirks
05-16-2003, 11:08 AM
Uh huh... he appears to be a drunk veteran, but that's only his cover. He's the designer of my shades!

Smirks
05-16-2003, 11:45 AM
the pearljamonline.it guy just emailed me back and said he was removing them as well.

Highway23
05-16-2003, 11:55 AM
good stuff, thanks Smirks

jamijams
05-16-2003, 12:04 PM
can you take them down from here please? thanks.

csmooth24
05-16-2003, 12:07 PM
holy shite! thanks guys... :confused:

fuckers...

Smirks
05-16-2003, 12:22 PM
They've already been removed from here.

jamijams
05-16-2003, 12:34 PM
thank you smirks.
i'm so bummed about this you guys.
way bummed. :( :cry:

Smirks
05-16-2003, 12:51 PM
Don't be bummed. Jake and I are taking care of it. :)

jamijams
05-16-2003, 12:52 PM
thank you guys so much, I really really appreciate it, i know you know how much i love you guys. thank you.

Highway23
05-16-2003, 12:57 PM
Yeah Jami, I'm really sorry about this.

Before you had said that you didn't want it up, I had emailed TSIS, and told them about it, and then when you said you didn't want them posted, I told them. And they were cool enough to not post them.

That's the problem, we can't stop everyone from lurking and posting elsewhere.

I took the pictures down, so no one else can download them. Pearljamonline was nice enough to quickly take them down

and vale over at Longroad will be taking them down.


What some people don't understand is that some of the stuff on here we want to keep on here, and are special to us. They just come here to check for news/pictures/etc and don't care about reading the posts...

as you can see, there are tons of people who are lurking here everyday so really, they are just sitting there...and posting elsewhere


I'm sorry that they got out, and like Smirks said, we're taking care of it. I think Kat deleted the post for me as well.

Smirks
05-16-2003, 01:00 PM
Yep, it looks like she did. longroad.it has removed them now, and so has pjo.it.

Smirks
05-16-2003, 01:07 PM
I take that back, the post is still there on Synergy, but longroad.it has, in fact, removed the pictures.

Smirks
05-16-2003, 01:09 PM
Ha! Moments after my last post Kat did, in fact, delete the text of the offending synergy post.

John Grey
05-16-2003, 01:13 PM
I just wanted to say that , for me, the good news is as a result of this debacle I've learned of your messageboard.
I do hope you'll be able to sort it all out and put the photos back up. I have a younger brother who has Crohn's and lives over in Scotland. He would have been delighted to see Mike speaking up for people like him.
Good luck with this kids!

Highway23
05-16-2003, 01:15 PM
welcome John Grey, and i'm sorry to hear of yer brother's disease...


hopefully he's doing well.

Yeah, Kat has been cleaning the addresses up :)

John Grey
05-16-2003, 01:18 PM
Thank you. This looks like a more relaxed board then some. No names mentioned.
My brother was diagnosed about 6 months ago. He's working through it as best he can. And thank you for asking after him.

csmooth24
05-16-2003, 01:20 PM
hey john, welcome!

how old is your brother? how is his health right now?

Highway23
05-16-2003, 01:22 PM
Let me say, you will really enjoy this board

same news, but

more fun, more laidback, more personal, and we rock :)


Our good friend CSMOOTH24 was at the diner, with jamiscott. Smoothie has Crohns, and I'm sure that he would gladly help ya out if you have any questions or anything :)

John Grey
05-16-2003, 01:23 PM
My brother's 16. He's having a bit of a time with it. But he's kept his sense of humor. I believe he said, "If McCready can deal with it, so can I." I think he was having a Braveheart moment.

Not_Trapped
05-16-2003, 01:25 PM
welcome to the BOARD! have fun !

oh my what a mess this became with the pictures and all...when jake first asked if it was cool to share them i think i had the same feeling that jami did about people not appreciating them for what they are...oh well...

glad it's cleaned up now

dominic

John Grey
05-16-2003, 01:25 PM
Thank you. Naturally when I heard I was on the net ASAP looking up whatever I could.

John Grey
05-16-2003, 01:27 PM
I totally understand. I had hoped to see them and share the link with my brother. But I'm sticking around photos or not.

Jde-PJ
05-16-2003, 01:48 PM
Sorry this turned into the mess it did, but glad we have Chris here to kick some booty of those sites, and you too Jake:O :eek:


This did not surprise me at all, just wish for once I would have been wrong about thinking this would happen :cross:


Anyway thanks again to Chris and Jami for sharing with us their experience, I really enjoyed reading all about it :)

csmooth24
05-16-2003, 01:56 PM
hope your brother get through this bout...its really a lifestyle change, but i would not trade any of it...

living (and i mean LIVING) with crohn's has made me a stronger person...it has taught me not to take things for granted...it has taught me to not sweat the small stuff (its all small stuff) cause you never know when you'll end up in the hospital...it has taught me to keep my sense of humor, it comes in handy...

if you have any questions, feel free to ask, email or PM me...i am quite versed in the disease... ;) :)

and to comment on the 'virus' of our photos, thanks guys so much for helping preserve the privacy...jake, chris, you two are awesome! thanks... :)

John Grey
05-16-2003, 02:06 PM
Thank you csmooth, that's very kind of you. He's to have surgery on the first day of his summer holidays. What a way to start them off.

csmooth24
05-16-2003, 02:13 PM
wow...that is really too bad...

i've had plenty of surgeries...actually, 5 'majors' from dec '01 to oct '02...when you figure this site out, and do a search, you could probably find my posts about that 10 months...it was ridiculous!

is he having a bowel resection?

John Grey
05-16-2003, 02:14 PM
Yes he is. It would be interesting to find your posts as an online journal of sorts. But once I do get the chance I shall search for them.

csmooth24
05-16-2003, 02:15 PM
maybe i'll search em out too...bump em up... :)

reallygroovN
05-16-2003, 02:16 PM
ok

so ive just wasted a few hours and lots of braincells arguing with the fuckers over at synergy. they just dont get it and i cant make them.

im sorry this happened to you chris and jami. i know in the grand scheme of things this is not a big deal. i just hate when people dont even try to see someone elses point of view. and i really hate it when people dont show respect. but i cant change the world so imso freaking done over there.

so, again, for the zillionth time, chris, thanks so much for this bbs. all you residents of smirksville, thanks so much for being so cool. i think most of us understand the whys and the reasons.

and all you lurkers, come out and show yourselfand introduce yourself. unless you are an *assclown*, of course ;)

Smirks
05-16-2003, 02:19 PM
Thanks Cath... I've been following your posts on syngery.

Is assclown even a word?

GreenDisease
05-16-2003, 02:21 PM
hahee... "assclown"

I can't stand synergy. I left there a long time ago and never went back. Very immature, not my style at all. Its like a very bad day care over there.

peacefulness
05-16-2003, 02:22 PM
it really sucks that this happened. I mean, yes this is a public forum, but that doesn't mean that the pictures were. Just because they can be copied and moved doesn't mean they should. If you wanted them spread around, then you would have not said "please don't spread them around."

I guess, since it's obvious you can't trust people, next time you want to share pictures with us, you would have to set up a private site to upload them on. Set up a private MSN group or something. Then just have us pm you to get in or whatever.

Thanks for trusting us with them. Sorry you were disappointed. People Suck!!! (I haven't said that in a couple of days, now I have. The world makes sense again)

~Melanie

low_light
05-16-2003, 02:25 PM
welcome to the board John. welcome to the smoother waters of Smirks. if youre used to Synergy youll be delightfully suprised

best of luck to your brothers surgery.

i just woke up about an hour ago (yes its noon, so what!!) and i cant believe how much has transpired :) jeez. feeding frenzy of the net.
its sad but not unexpected.

-dm

GreenDisease
05-16-2003, 02:27 PM
Beavis and Butthead made "assgoblin" a word. :)
Homer Simpson made "jerkass" a word.
Im sure if you put "ass" with any other word, it becomes a part of the American lexicon :)

John Grey
05-16-2003, 02:28 PM
Thank you low_light, you're an excellent song by the way.
Speaking of Synergy, I went there way back when it first began. The kids back then were far less, um, emotionally constipated. We would trade bootlegs on casettes. I sound like a dinosaur.
Anyway, you're all doing your best to handle that crowd.

mensane
05-16-2003, 02:30 PM
this is EXACTLY why i never put the pictures of mike at the tattoo parlor on the internet.

Om1
05-16-2003, 02:39 PM
Originally posted by Smirks
Thanks Cath... I've been following your posts on syngery.

Is assclown even a word?

mos def, smirks...

From Office Space:

Michael: Yeah, well, at least your name isn't Michael Bolton.
Samir: You know, there's nothing wrong with that name.
Michael: There WAS nothing wrong with it. Until I was about 12 years old, and that no-talent ass clown became famous and started winning Grammys.
Samir: Well, why don't you just go by Mike instead of Michael?.
Michael: No way! Why should I change? He's the one who sucks!


If Mike Judge says so, then it must be true. One of the funniest films ever.

Smirks
05-16-2003, 02:44 PM
Oh yes! How could I forget.... I've seen that movie a few times!

Thanks, Om!

John Grey
05-16-2003, 02:46 PM
I fell asleep during it. I seem to recall a Geto Boys song in it though. At least, I think that's the movie it was in.

Smirks
05-16-2003, 02:47 PM
Hi, John Grey..... nice to have you here! :)

John Grey
05-16-2003, 02:49 PM
Nice to be here Smirks.
Um, I don't know the language rules here. But I do feel the need to quote my grandfather in regard to what's happening over on the other board. He says, "Some people will argue a fuck."
Sorry if I offended anyway! But it just seems fitting.

Smirks
05-16-2003, 02:50 PM
There are no rules here.... :)

Well, one.... just don't piss me off..... it's hard to do.... it really is. Other than that, I'm pretty lenient.... pretty much anything goes. :) :bandit: :cool: :chinese:

John Grey
05-16-2003, 02:56 PM
I believe I can follow those rules.

TmasH
05-16-2003, 03:35 PM
man o man that really fries my bacon.
*holding back...deep breath*

Thanks for sharing your day with us Chris and Jami, that meant a lot. :)

Welcome John

jamijams
05-16-2003, 03:47 PM
thank you chris and jake for the damage control.
i really appreciate it, and this little safe haven we have here.
i'm sorry that we've all had to deal with this today. serenity now, serenity now!!!! :D
i just don't see how people can't understand this: I KNEW people would spread the word and come here and look. DUH. and that was fine, no sweat. i just asked what i thought was a reasonable request. just look at them, enjoy them, love them for what they are. when taken out of context, things get crazy.
it just makes me appreicate you all so much more, thank you all for being you. let's not waste any more energy on this. we here all know how special the day was, and no one can take that away. incidentally, any of you who havent seen them and would like to (welcome back uncle ardy!!!!) please, send me an email address and I'll show you. i'm not trying to hoard them by any means, i just didn't want well, you know.
:mad: :O
nothing but love for you all.
:D
hi john grey! welcome. language rules? what are those?????? :P

csmooth24
05-16-2003, 03:49 PM
fuck language rules!!! :P

((((((smirksters!)))))

John Grey
05-16-2003, 03:56 PM
Thank you all for the welcomes!
And as the new guy in here I won't ask to see the photos. I totally respect your privacy. On to more pleasant topics soon I hope.

Not_Trapped
05-16-2003, 03:57 PM
try <a href="http://webster.commnet.edu/grammar/">Language Rules</a> for some helpful hints - don't thank me now!

dominic

jamijams
05-16-2003, 04:05 PM
oh good, the resident grammar specialist is here :P
whats up dominic? I think i'm going to need you to carry a super strong umbrella to repel all the tomatoes being thrown my way today! fuuuuuuck :bandit:

Not_Trapped
05-16-2003, 04:09 PM
tomatoes? catch those motherfuckers and make some sauce...i am so hungry. i have this really great umbrella that has a diameter of about 4' that i carry on my golf bag. it's not that strong though...it was a freebie from a bank. i'll check into it.

i am doing well. as i mentioned in a post somewhere else...i saw the matrix twice-i like it, but oh as a psychologist the first one really got inside my head and the second was a let down in that category for me. but carrie-anne moss, wow. i need to add her to my beautiful women list.

i'm washing clothes - well the washer is and then the dryer is drying in, but in the traditional sense where the woman or man would scrub the clothes over the washboard and then hang them to dry the person really did wash the clothes...but in this case i am merely moving them from one place to another. oh well. rambling.

i need a job.

dominic

mensane
05-16-2003, 04:12 PM
sauce??? dont you mean GRAVY?

LOL

prism
05-16-2003, 04:15 PM
cripes, I know that whomever took these pics and spread them had to have read the "please don't share these" part of the thread that contained them. thanks Boulie and Chris for getting the sitution taken care of. :cheer:
And most of all thank you Chris and Jami for trusting us to share the pictures and yer day with us. it's just too bad that the "assclowns" don't understand what respect is all about. Chris and Jami :cool: I just wanted ya'll to know that youse guys have my greastest respect :)

now get back to work on those TPS reports

Not_Trapped
05-16-2003, 04:30 PM
Originally posted by mensane
sauce??? dont you mean GRAVY?

LOL

did i mention that i hate you ;) tee hee tee hee!

dominic

yer ardy
05-16-2003, 05:10 PM
"Some people will argue a fuck."

that is THE best quote i've read
in a long time...

thanks, mr. grey, it made my day.

(and I just rhymed!!)

GreenDisease
05-16-2003, 05:15 PM
Its GRAVY when its got meat cooked in it. It's SAUCE when its on its own. If you got problems with that, consult the Soprano's family cookbook. :)

THERE! :mad: LOL

And Hi'ya Mr. Grey, welcome aboard!

Not_Trapped
05-16-2003, 05:35 PM
the sopranos don't count -

dominic

GreenDisease
05-16-2003, 06:29 PM
I hate that show anyway. I hate Tony Soprano. I just love the cookbook.

There is a "sauce" recipe which is just canned tomatoes and basil.

And there is a "gravy" recipe which is two pages. Bracciol, ribs, pork, meatballs, wine, crushed tomatoes. YUMMY!!!!! Now thats good!

Not_Trapped
05-16-2003, 06:39 PM
:)

you make me laugh cara -

;)

--dominic--

John Grey
05-16-2003, 07:07 PM
My final post for the day. My daughters are dragging me to see a movie. Anyway, I wanted to thank you all for welcoming me. You're a lovely group of kids.
Thank you Jami (and Chris) for trusting the newbie.
Here's another quote from my grandfather you may enjoy yer ardy:
I don't give a rat's fat clacker

And I may annoy the lot of you with loads of questions.
Have a great weekend!

csmooth24
05-16-2003, 07:29 PM
((he called us kids)) :P

Goodbye Mr. Grey...see you soon... :D

brokenarrow
05-16-2003, 07:45 PM
Originally posted by reallygroovN
ok

so ive just wasted a few hours and lots of braincells arguing with the fuckers over at synergy. they just dont get it and i cant make them.

im sorry this happened to you chris and jami. i know in the grand scheme of things this is not a big deal. i just hate when people dont even try to see someone elses point of view. and i really hate it when people dont show respect. but i cant change the world so imso freaking done over there.

so, again, for the zillionth time, chris, thanks so much for this bbs. all you residents of smirksville, thanks so much for being so cool. i think most of us understand the whys and the reasons.

and all you lurkers, come out and show yourselfand introduce yourself. unless you are an *assclown*, of course ;)


I just went over to Synergy to browse a little and saw the post...saw what was going on and immediately knew where the link must have come from. I'm sorry for all of the frustration you folks must have felt today.
Don't let it ruin your experience though. I haven't read the story, or seen the pics...I don't have to really, to know that it must have been a wonderful experience for you, and I can also understand why you wouldn't want them splattered all over the internet. I can't understand why people didn't respect your wishes and got all huffy about it....and then get into a battle!

psst....hey groovN...you oughta know you can't argue with some of them folks and not end up with a sharp pain in the left temple, a boil on the butt, or a goiter!


:smoke: :smoke: :smoke: :smoke: i love that little smoking dude!:D

midnightsyren
05-16-2003, 07:48 PM
geez..
that sucks that happened with the pictures :(
i hope its all cleared up now!!


on the lighter side, a word that I REALLY like would be
"FUCKASS"

:)
from Donnie Darko

"you're such a .. FUCKASS"

"oh yeah.. then why don't you go suck a fuck!"

GreenDisease
05-16-2003, 08:41 PM
LMAO... Fuckass! Thats classic!

And "I dont give a rats fat clacker."

Good God Im gonna pee myself. LMAO

I might as well add one to the mix..I got this one from the movie Moonstruck.... "You want to hear a saying my mother taught me? Don't shit where you eat."

:)

share
05-17-2003, 09:46 AM
wow - this really shows you about this whole community thing!!

how everybody was able to contact everybody and get things
straightened out - the whole thing amazes me!!

(some people would argue a fuck!! - i like that too - i got
really angry once and called somebody a fuckity fuck fuck,
wow don't them there words have power!!! - lol)

chris and jamijams - sorry you guys had to be on the butt
end of all that negative crap - i think all of those people
with the "they're just pictures and we didn't want to
see you in them anyway" comments really missed the whole
point of maintaining the intergrity of what that day was about
and not exploiting the fact that a bunch of guys showed up to
support their friend and at the same time do a little nice thing
for some of the people that were there doing exactly that same
thing, supporting their friends

man it went tabloid there for a minute didn't it!!

NuclearTreeFrog
05-17-2003, 01:38 PM
I fell asleep during it. I seem to recall a Geto Boys song in it though. At least, I think that's the movie it was in.

Geto Boys - Damn It Feels Good to Be a Gangsta

Damn it feels good to be a gangsta
A real gangsta-ass nigga plays his cards right
A real gangsta-ass nigga never runs his fuckin mouth
Cuz real gangsta-ass niggas don't start fights
And niggas always gotta high cap
Showin' all his boys how he shot em
But real gangsta-ass niggas don't flex nuts
Cuz real gangsta-ass niggas know they got em
And everythings cool in the mind of a gangsta
Cuz gangsta-ass niggas think deep
Up three-sixty-five a year 24/7
Cuz real gangsta ass niggas don't sleep

And all I gotta say to you
Wannabe, gonnabe, cocksuckin', pussy-eatin' prankstas
Cuz when the fry dies down what the fuck you gonna do
Damn it feels good to be a gangsta



Damn it feels good to be a gangsta
Feedin' the poor and hepin out wit they bills
Although I was born in Jamaica
Now I'm in the US makin' deals
Damn it feels good to be a gangsta
I mean one that you don't really know
Ridin' around town in a drop-top Benz
Hittin' switches in my black six-fo'
Now gangsta-ass niggas come in all shapes and colors
Some got killed in the past
But this gangtsa here is a smart one
Started living for the lord and I'll last

Now all I gotta say to you
Wannabe, gonnabe, pussy-eatin' cocksuckin' prankstas
When the shit jumps off what the fuck you gonna do
Damn it feels good to be a gangsta


Damn it feels good to be a gangsta
A real gangta-ass nigga knows the play
Real gangsta-ass niggas get the flyest of the bitches
Ask that gangsta-ass nigga Little Jake
Now bitches look at gangsta-ass niggas like a stop sign
And play the role of Little Miss Sweet
But catch the bitch all alone get the digit take her out
and then dump-hittin' the ass with the meat
Cuz gangsta-ass niggas be the gang playas
And everythings quiet in the clique
A gangsta-ass nigga pulls the trigger
And his partners in the posse ain't tellin' off shit
Real gangsta-ass niggas don't talk much
All ya hear is the black from the gun blast
And real gangsta-ass niggas don't run for shit
Cuz real gangsta-ass niggas can't run fast
Now when you in the free world talkin' shit do the shit
Hit the pen and let the mothafuckas shank ya
But niggas like myself kick back and peep game
Cuz damn it feels good to be a gangsta


And now, a word from the President!
Damn it feels good to be a gangsta
Gettin voted into the White House
Everything lookin good to the people of the world
But the Mafia family is my boss
So every now and then I owe a favor gettin' down
like lettin' a big drug shipment through
And send 'em to the poor community
So we can bust you know who
So voters of the world keep supportin' me
And I promise to take you very far
Other leaders better not upset me
Or I'll send a million troops to die at war
To all you Republicans, that helped me win
I sincerely like to thank you
Cuz now I got the world swingin' from my nuts
And damn it feels good to be a gangsta




funny song

John Grey
05-17-2003, 06:00 PM
That's the song!
Stone's theme...