add this to your 'to do' list

[corduroykate]

give yer daddio or whoever's served as yer daddio a hug...dads rock /images/cool.gif

-one who doesnt care, is one who shouldn't be-

[poetrywriter]

Sad to say, but not all dads rule. For some, Father's Day is an annoying reminder of just what an asshole their father was/is.

[yer ardy]

i'd give my eyeteeth to be able
to hug/talk to/send a card to my dad today...
he was a jerk, for sure, but those
were HIS problems, not mine...

his loss is my loss, too.

_________
I was born at night, but not ~last~ night, baby...

[corduroykate]

yo doug--of course not all biological dads rule...but generally everyone has some father type figure who's helped them out along the way and thats who fathers day aims to honor...thats all i meant...

-one who doesnt care, is one who shouldn't be-

[poetrywriter]

yo Kate - I wasn't trying to be sarcastic or anything like that. I was just eluding to my own personal Father's Day today. I get what you meant.

[corduroykate]

oh i know dude /images/smile.gif dont fret /images/smile.gif

-one who doesnt care, is one who shouldn't be-

[corduroykate]

"he was a jerk, for sure, but those
were HIS problems, not mine...
his loss is my loss, too."

ardy, thats an interesting-and brave-way to think about it

-one who doesnt care, is one who shouldn't be-

[yer ardy]

well after many, many years
of blaming myself for what
happened..and many, many years
of punishing myself for what
happened, i realized it wasn't
*my* fault..it was his problem.
once you get to that point,
it's easier to forgive...
and then you can move on...

this is just my situation...

anyways...

_________
I was born at night, but not ~last~ night, baby...

[mensane]

i just called him..../images/smile.gif