hello hellow helloww

[jamijams]

is there anybody in there? just nod if you can, hear me...is there anyone at home? come on now....

its like a ghost town in here! /images/crazy.gif

i should be working, but I dont wanna. listening to vitalogy and wondering, is honesty REALLY the best policy? I consider myself a incredibly truthful person, truthful to myself, to others...I say what I feel, and mean what I say...and just because I sometimes choose not to say something, in my opinion, does not make me untruthful. timing is everything, and as my mother has said for my whole life, its not *what* you say, but *how* you say it. but I wonder, if everyone where honest with each other, would it be a better place, or a miserable bitchy place. waddyall think?

You bring about what you think about

[Phil]

I thought for a minute this was a Three Stooges thread



ya knucklehead.

[jamijams]

sorry????? /images/frown.gif

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[Plaidsurfshorts]

Hi, I'm here, sick as a dog. /images/crazy.gif
Glad to hear you are doing well, but unfortunately, I am too "out of it" to answer your thoughtful question about honesty right now. All that is registering is "Oooohh...Vitalogy is such a good record!!"
By the way, I found last night that Mother Love Bone helps a lot with the sickies, but I was feeling MUCH better yesterday than I am today. Blech.

"What is a million people...listening...to your music?" - JA, "SVT".

[jamijams]

sending some serious healing energies your way pss....drink as much water as you can stand, and by all means, sleep as much as you can. im so sorry you're sick /images/frown.gif. can you feel my healing vibes yet? /images/wink.gif

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[Plaidsurfshorts]

Feelin' them a little bit, thanks. /images/smile.gif Unfortunately, I think I have done all the sleeping I can afford to do today. Got an exam on Friday and then on Monday and Tuesday of next week, plus an article rewrite that I am gonna have to get done today s as not to interfere with the studying. /images/crazy.gif You think I oculd at least get a case of the Hornies to offset everything and make the sickness a bit more pleasant.

"What is a million people...listening...to your music?" - JA, "SVT".

[Just_Jam_Please]

Gooooooooooooooood morning Jami!!!!!!!!!/images/smile.gif Hmmmmmmmm....deep thinking for so early in the day. Well, my opinion is that NO WAY is honesty the best policy. i.e. 'Honey do these pants me look fat?' He answers 'Yep.' Not a happy couple right there I tell ya. I think that say politicians should be honest, teachers should be honest, friends should be honest, but during certain occasions white lies are perfectly acceptable. If I didn't lie I wouldn't be able to vacation next week. So, I think that answered your question/images/smile.gif

'Was it WRONG of me to lick the television screen b/c Ed was on it??? Was that not right??' /images/tongue.gif

[Phil]

No, no, no... don't apologize.

You have to tweak my nose, and whack your tweaking hand with your free fist
/images/laugh.gif

[jamijams]

lolol. and then do i have to say somethin like
a wubwubwubwubwub????

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[meaningless]

Honesty is the best policy, I don't care if it hurts. Okay I care if it hurts, that certainly sucks, but we can't get anywhere if we don't face the truth and deal with it, ya know? Lying will only come back and kick you in the pants in the end, in my humble opinion. It only complicates things. Plus, i mean... "what are you running from?" You know? If you have to lie about something, you're ignoring some deeper issues or something. I don't know. I can't get my point across as I want to right now. I think it's cuz I can't see this computer screen cuz there are all these fingerprints on it and a glare. That's the honest truth. /images/smile.gif

FUck, I remember when I was applying to college and shit and my mother was like "oh, fudge it a little bit, stretch the truth..." But i couldn't even fucking do that. What's the value of getting something you want if you don't even earn it yourself? Will you really feel good about it in the end? Maybe it's just me, I have major guilt issues about everything. I suppose some people go through life being dishonest shitheads and taking advantage of everyone and thing and perhaps they climb high on whatever ladder... but I don't want to know those people and personally, nobody is worth my time if they are not completely honest. I prefer my people to be pure individuals. My people. You know, the people in my cult who worship me? /images/wink.gif

BLEH I really can't be articulate right now. But I just want to say that yes, HONESTY. I hate lies and i hate liars and that's another truth. But you knwo what? I'm having this struggle because I really also hate like hatred of other people, you know, but how can I be above that if I hate people who hate or whatever? Then there I am, hating people. Right? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.

I don't wanna work either. BLEH.

That's why I'm here. Heh.

-Niko

"if just once... i could feel love... oh stare back at me, yeah..."

[Phil]

A wiseguy, eh?

(as I try to poke jami in the eyes and she puts her hand up to block mine, then slaps me and donks me on the head)

[jamijams]

well, JJP - as I said, its not *what* you say, but how you say it. Instead of "yes, those pants make you look fat" try saying "they aren't my favorite pants." catchin on??????



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[Just_Jam_Please]

Yeah I get it. But I still stand by what I say. I mean if I were completely and hold heartedly honest it would REALLY hurt some people. And I'm not talking about friends, but close family. It's better just to keep my lips shut and lie rather than destroying someone completely from the inside.

'Was it WRONG of me to lick the television screen b/c Ed was on it??? Was that not right??' /images/tongue.gif

[jamijams]

agreed. I don't mean that you should always say what you're thinking, but when you do speak, it should be honestly. ya know? sometimes it is the art of what is left UNSAID...

You bring about what you think about