Return of the ex-boyfriend from "I love you" hell!!!!!

[ByzantineBug]

God!!!!! WHY1!!!?!?
This is not neuclear fisics,not an important enviromental issue,..It's just the LAST thing I needed!!
I sooo did not expect to hear him on the other end of the line when I picked up the phone,...I was /images/shocked.gif!

recap:We met,..he was to go to Thailand for 6 months,he was running towards third base,..I janked him back!,he said:"I love you" I gave him the boot...and now he's back all friendly and crap,..
So he asks when we can meet up again,..I panic,..and we arrange to meet next saturday,my best friend will come along though..so that's good.

Have yuo ever said:"Let's just be friends" and not ment a single word of it??
What do I do??/? I don't want to hurt his feeling again,..but I'd rather he not call me and stuff...
what to do?????/images/shocked.gif

Awwww baby! /images/laugh.gif

[Seany]

Trouble with the old love life bugs? Honesty is the best policy in my opinion..its the only way cause most times the person will sniff out the truth and then get even more hurt at the end of the day...be tough bugs...I've done it and it is better, believe me!

[Not_Trapped]

if he cares, then right now being friends will be just fine, but if he pressures you into something else or tries to then he is after one thing. that is my opinion of course....

--dominic

staring blankly back at you

[ByzantineBug]

Thanks you guy's,..;)

But honesty Seany?? I can't do that to his little heart,..I'm such a bitch,and I'll make it come out all wrong.
When we first broke up,he still wanted to 'meet-up' and such,..so I told him I didn't wanna,..and then he got all puppy eyed,...
I was actually relieved when he left.
I'm *so* not ready to be in a time consuming relationgship (is there an other kind?)...

"Be tough bugs" 8)

Awwww baby! /images/laugh.gif

[mtgirl]

hey byz, the meanest thing you can do is to not be truthful. i know it's hard to find the right words, but just be like, listen dude, i would prefer not to see you at all anymore. i'm sorry. you don't need the gory details of why and if he asks why then you could say, i would just prefer not to. anyways, good luck, sticky sitches like these suck

cute boys make me frusterated

[13throwcenter]

girlfriend.... one of the things we women are taught to do to our own detriment is to consider the feelings of others before we consider the feelings of ourself. Do what is right for the Buggy. It IS okay to do that, you know. I give you permission. /images/wink.gif

~.~.~.~.~
And the rivers shall open for the righteous, someday.

[bluecow]

well, this kinda reminds me of this thing my best friend is dealing with now...

she had this boyfriend, almost exactly a year ago (on their 1 year anniversary) she cheated on him... he broke up with her, she was a total bitch to him but he was pathetic anyway, he deserved it... he like, worshipped her, and he didn't like me because he thought i was too mean to her, i'm not though, she's just my best friend so when she asks my opinion on something, i tell her honestly, and he thought that was being mean.

anyway, she was a total bitch to him so he sends her this e-mail yesterday and he's all, "lisa, i still miss you and love you. can we please meet for coffee sometime..." etc... blah blah.

i know my friend is the one that sounds like a bitch here, but this guy really was an idiot.

sorry, don't really have any advice, but i thought i'd share a story.

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